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GoddessOrchid

Where the hell<---can I say that? Do I belong?

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GoddessOrchid

Okay...sometimes I don't fit in anywhere. Not even here in Our Place. Not on Facebook and not in the real world.

I am still working making friends...uh not doing a good job at it.

Am I wasting time?

I have no self-esteem. I have read self-esteem is based on three things: 1) feeling in control of ones life, 2) a sense of belonging, 3) a sense of accompliment. Well BEEP BEEP BEEP I think I miss 2 our of three.

Frustrating and completely ANNOYING!!

So where the hell do I belong!!!!? Forgive my mouth but I woke up this morning feeling a bit strange. Loving God and feeling like I don't belong anywhere.

I am so paranoid. Everyone is out to get me.

Plus I have a scar on my right breast that won't go away. Sorry like you needed to hear that.

BLAH BLAH BLAH.

I am mad and happy at the same time.

Anyone out there going through this. Like you would understand what this was! I shouldn't assume. BTW I like Ssips Ice Tea full of High FRUITOSE or however you say it.

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Aurora

((((Goddess)))))))

I don't mean to laugh at your post but :laughing-smiley-014: I was litterlly saying the same thing to my cousin this morning. I think I am in the middle of a hormone inbalance. I had a hot flash 2 weeks ago. I had my period last week. I was soo happy 2 days ago I even posted about it and today I'm soo mad I could spit. WTH is going on? It happens!!! Don't be so down on yourself. You can make yourself fit in wherever you feel most comfortable. I'm pulling up a chair right next to you. I'm not out to get you.

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Lily Bright

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I'll save you a spot next to me, kay???

:wub::hug:

Lily

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moongoddess
So where the hell do I belong!!!!?

((((((((((((((((((GODDESSORCHID))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I HEAR YOU SWEETHEART

it takes a LONG time to FIND your community after leaving abuse....

i started by thinking of things i like to do......singing, pottery, running etc.

and got myself connected.....

and I TOOK risks and asked women that i liked from work out for coffee....

and a 12 step program......helped me to find my PLACE of belonging since i grew up with alcoholism and dysfuntion.....

LIKE OP, i found that people in the 12 step programs "GOT ME" like no one else "GETS ME"

*HUGS BEAUTIFUL*

MG :nature-smiley-008:

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GoddessOrchid

When I reread what I wrote I cracked up! Oh my what planet was I on two days ago. Thank you all I am feeling better today.

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moongoddess
When I reread what I wrote I cracked up! Oh my what planet was I on two days ago. Thank you all I am feeling better today.

AAAAAAAAAWWWWW darlin'! we have ALL been there, well, then again, i can't speak for others here,

BUT I SURE HAVE BEEN THERE, many, many times!

and just in case you forget again: you are a part of this communityand you are loved...... :wub::wub::wub:

*HUGS*

MG :hug:

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jaded
Okay...sometimes I don't fit in anywhere. Not even here in Our Place. Not on Facebook and not in the real world.

I am still working making friends...uh not doing a good job at it

So where the hell do I belong!!!!? Forgive my mouth but I woke up this morning feeling a bit strange.

Hi 'GoddessOrchid'

I was there just last night in fact, sitting alone at a gig with four bands with no-one to talk to or hang out with while my teen and his friend were up the front headbangig. I'm not a stranger to being one of a handful of lone parents taking teens to a gig but this was heavey metal and there were no only parents there, I ended up sitting with a couple of strangers who felt sorry for me.

I will pretend you are sitting with me next time and I'm not out to get you

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