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Fluffyflea

Why do we have pangs of missing them.....

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Fluffyflea

Hi All,

Its been over a year and a half, I got treated like crap.

How come I can still have feelings of missing him?

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Quaddie

Trauma bonding. Conditioning. Missing the "dream" of what it was supposed to be. The "good parts" that are difficult to reconcile as not having necessarily been truly real. Missing what's known and comfortable from being accustomed to it.

 

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Vanilli

Because you're human, you care, we always miss people who meant something to us who we were close to. It doesn't reflect badly on you. You'll heal and move on in time :), just give yourself time. 

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