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Starshine

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Starshine

I haven't been on in a while but I wanted to let everyone know what has been going on in my life lately. This year has started out bad for my family. My husband passed away suddenly the end of January. I know that I have told you some of the things he had done to me but I still loved him even though I didn't like him very much. Last year he was making a change and he started treating me better which makes it so much harder to take. Just when things were getting better he was taken from us. My son is in such pain so I am in mommy mode taking care of him. But sometimes the grief is overwhelming and I find myself crying, angry, hurt, sad, and a host of other emotions I am dealing with. We were married for almost 40 years and to have this happen just when things were taking a turn for the better is so unfair. I know he was a jacka** but it still hurts when it happened so fast we didn't even really get to say goodbye to him we thought he would be okay.

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AZ-home

Oh Starshine, I’m so sorry to hear this! I think of you all the time and wonder how you are doing. I’m here for you but don't know what i can do.  I’ll say a prayer for your family. 

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vpc

Oh Starshine, I am so so sorry. I can imagine the grief would be overwhelming.

Cry as much as you need to and be gentle with yourself. (((((Starshine)))))

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Quaddie

I'm so sorry, Starshine.

It's okay to feel however you feel. Like VPC said, cry all you need and be gentle with yourself. This is tough no matter what. 

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Bennu

I'm sorry too, Starshine. Take care of yourself as well as your son. We are here for you.

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percolate

Give yourself plenty of time.  And take good care of yourself so that you can help your son. 

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