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Fluffyflea

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Fluffyflea

Hi All,

So it's been 4.5 months since we split up.

Im still sticking to no contact and my plan of no relationships for at least a year.

I was thinking yesterday how good it is that I've chosen not to walk on egg shells anymore,how I've chosen to not be the "Intermittent Chicken" anymore waiting for when he throws a crumb my way,we come back together,then split apart again, all the drama of that stuff, how I've chosen to not be in an addictive, toxic relationship with someone who could care less about how I feel about anything.

Bye for now

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Melinoe

Good for you, I wish I could give you a big hug and a high-five!! 

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Fluffyflea

???

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blueskye

That's awesome Fluffy. Good job! Keep going. 

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hoping

Fluffyflea

You are doing good!

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Fluffyflea

Woo boy should see the hooky email I got last night from him in my junk folder. Six paragraphs and all full of hooks and manipulations.

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Quaddie

Fluffy? I know I keep saying this, but can you block him, and not look at the emails?

It's for your own health and sanity...

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Fluffyflea

He is blocked and out of my contact list. Gmail goes to your junk folder apparently.

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Fluffyflea

It's that their timing is impeccable apparently.

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Quaddie

You can filter his to go to trash, but there is probably a way to block them from coming through entirely. 

And you can delete trash without reading or even seeing the snippets.

Protect yourself. Value your own health.

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blueskye

But she stayed strong!

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