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Orchidgoddess717

Saying it with words

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I am not going to get into my deep story that would take forever. However, I will talk about something I never shared with anyone. First I have been out of my abusive relationship for nearly 10 years not to say there hasn't been drama from time to time but I am free. I have healed a lot. My marriage had it all emotional, verbal, physical, and sexual abuse. One thing I never told anyone is that my husband setup for me to be gang raped by his friends. By the time we had gotten to this point...I was no longer just his wife but a servant or slave to do whatever he wanted. Even though it was against my will he felt it was his right. I had none. I was gang raped not only once more than once. Let me tell you it changes you and the type of person you become. It changed how I viewed the world and the people around me. I kept it secret because there was no one to really tell. No one who would understand. No one who would get it saying, "I have been there." So I remained silent. But recently, I have opened up about this and it has made me feel better about it.

Thank you for allowing me to speak. 

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(((hugs))) Those men belong in prison.

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That was awful what they did to you. I'm glad that you were able to talk about it. Hugs

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God, I am so very sorry for what happened to you but I am relived to hear that you made it out of there and that you are doing better. Not withstanding anything else of course.  You are a strong woman and might I just add, GOOD FOR YOU!

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