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Shalimar

Finally divorced and met a new man

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At long last - after 2.5 years being separated and single - I'm divorced and it hasn't cost me a penny.

At about the same time as divorce proceedings started 8 weeks ago I met a new man. There were some potential red flags flapping in the breeze, but trust me after 21 years of being in 2 abusive relationships I still have a few of my own. There was just something about this man that I trusted. I'm absolutely positive that he would never be violent or deliberately cruel, and the more I get to know him the more convinced I am that my judgement on this is sound.

So guys, it's very early days but I'm starting to defrost and having a hell of a lot of fun doing it ;)

And I'm :HappyAsLarry:

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Yayyy, Shalimar! I'm so happy for you. Glad your divorce is final. I know how good that feels.

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That's great Shalimar!

Go out, enjoy yourself and have some well deserved fun.

/hugs

Naiomi

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Hey Shalimar! First, congratulations on your divorce!! And it didn't cost you a penny. :) Well done! It's a good feeling, isn't it? And a new man too? Sounds promising! I'm glad more happiness is coming your way; you are an awesome person and you deserve every bit of it. :nature-smiley-008:

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Thanks guys.

Thanks for the compliments OT - you're pretty awesome too. I was just looking at the photos of our Paris trip yesterday and remembering the laughs we had :)

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Great news, S. Hope he's everything you deserve and more. xx

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Paris was fun! Wow, was that really almost a year ago?

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So glad to hear you're finding happiness, Shal. You so, so deserve it!!!! :wub:

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YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so happy for you girl!

:wub: :wub: :wub: :wub:

*BIG HUGS*

MG :D

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Woo hoo!! LOL I love that English phrase "Happy as Larry!" LOLOL. I don't know why, I bust out laughing whenever I see it :D

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aww Shalimar, you deserve to have some fun! You go girl!! Happy for you! :wub:

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